People ask me a whole lot of questions.

Most of the questions are about making more money. However, many of them are about how to attract an ideal mate.

Before we can talk about attracting the perfect loving relationship, let’s talk about what love is because most people have a misconception.

The truth about love

No single word in the English language adequately describes what love is. That’s because all the words in our vocabulary are three-dimensional, and love extends beyond the third dimension.

Love has to do with resonance—the quality of a deep, full, and reverberating vibration. Love is when people come together in perfect harmony on all planes of understanding.

So, how do you attract a person that’s in perfect harmony with you?

The easiest way for me to explain it is to share an example with you…

Are you casting a wide net?

Years ago, I talked with a woman who said she was looking for a mate. So, I asked her what qualities she was looking for.

She said she wanted a smart, funny, family man. Then, she added more qualities, but as she rattled off her list, I knew exactly why she had been having so much trouble finding the right man.

She was casting a wide net. The attributes she was looking for were so general all kinds of men would have been a match.

So, I walked her through an exercise that is both beautiful in its simplicity and astonishing its power. If you’re currently looking for a significant other, I urge you to follow along.

Attracting the perfect guy

First, I asked her to get as minutely descriptive as she could about her ideal man. Then, I wanted her to identify the exact qualities he would possess to make him a perfect match for her.

And, I suggested that she imagine a specific person who already exists in the world instead of thinking about a kind of person.

This time, the list of attributes she produced was quite specific. Among other things, she wanted someone who lived in her city and was interested in recreational sailing. She even listed certain movies she wanted him to like.

Now, we were getting somewhere!

Next, I asked her to draw a circle about the size of a silver dollar on a piece of paper and then write “My Man” inside the circle.

Then, I instructed her to draw lines radiating out from the circumference of the circle—the same way you might draw the rays from the sun. And on each of those lines, I had her write one of the specific attributes she had just thought out (print the download below to create a composite of your ideal mate).

I told her to spend some time right then focusing intensely on this picture—this representation of her dream man who already existed.

Finally, I told her to put the drawing in a conspicuous place in her home and spend time each day focusing on it—really bringing the image to life in her mind. I wanted her to see the three-dimensional person and really feel what life with this man would be like day in and day out.

Well, you can guess what happened, can’t you?

Before long, she met that dream man. He had it all, everything she was looking for—right down to the movies she wanted him to like. Eventually, she married him, and they had children.

Follow it to a T

I’ve shared this exercise with hundreds of people, and it works with incredible consistency. Not because of magic or luck, but because of Universal Law.

If you follow this process to a T, you, too, can attract a person that you’re in perfect harmony with.

That’s your intention, right?

I ask because this is a scientific practice; so, your intention must be clear. Wherever you intend to land is precisely where you will land.

So, be faithful to what you really want, not that for which you will settle.

Set your standards high and feel good

Without putting a face on the person, start to see yourself with someone who has all the qualities you want.

Think of it this way…

If you were creating a plan for a flight from Toronto to Miami, you wouldn’t say that you want to land somewhere in south Florida on Monday afternoon. Instead, you’d say that you intend to land at Miami International Airport at 2:43 p.m.

That’s the kind of specificity you need when you’re setting out to attract your dream partner.

And, as you go through each day, remember you can only attract to you what you’re in harmonious vibration with. So, what you think about and how you feel most of the time is what you will attract.

Is this for real?

I know some of what I suggest in this exercise may seem preposterous to you.

I assure you, it’s not. It has worked for more people than I can count.

So don’t brush this off if you’re serious about attracting someone special into your life. Do everything I suggest.

I promise you’ll like the results.

To your success,

Bob Proctor