When love didn’t seem to exist for me I changed my way of thinking as Bob suggests and made a list of all the attributes my ideal mate would have. A few weeks later, I met the love of my life and we got married a month ago. I am now a step mother to four great kids who bless me with their love and challenge me to see the world from new perspectives. I always wanted to design my own house and own it. A few months ago my family moved into my ideal house that my husband and I designed together. I now work at things I love to do and am filled with renewed energy and ideas. My health and fitness have improved as well because I am more confident and feel better about myself. I know now that whatever challenges life brings me, they are for my growth and the overall betterment of my existence and I don’t fear them. I embrace them!